Topic · decisions
When you need to choose, it can help to name what matters, which options are available, and what is still unknown. Comparing options by your own criteria can reveal questions, but it will not choose for you.
Exercise
Write down details in your own words, note open questions, and choose one manageable step.
Uncertainty cannot always be removed before you choose. Separate what is known and unknown, check what information you can get, and consider the cost of an error and whether the decision can be revisited.
You may want closeness and time alone, change and stability, or both to accept and decline an offer. Explore what each option supports without forcing one desire to disappear.
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