Topic · relationships

Observation and interpretation

In relationships, it is easy to treat a guess about someone’s intentions as an established fact. Separating words, events, and your own assumptions leaves room to clarify and talk again.

Exercise

Start with what you know

Write down details in your own words, note open questions, and choose one manageable step.

How to prepare for a difficult conversation

Before you talk, decide what you want to say, learn, and ask for. Preparation can help you stay with the topic, but it cannot guarantee agreement or replace a safety plan in a risky situation.

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