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Separate fictional example
Fictional example: “Time” and “Closeness”; a question might be how to make room for both rest and an evening together.
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Separate fictional example
Fictional example: “Time” and “Closeness”; a question might be how to make room for both rest and an evening together.
Skip, rename, or replace the suggestions with your own words. Name two or three priorities for your result; they appear as a list without ranking.
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Uncertainty cannot always be removed before you choose. Separate what is known and unknown, check what information you can get, and consider the cost of an error and whether the decision can be revisited.
You may want closeness and time alone, change and stability, or both to accept and decline an offer. Explore what each option supports without forcing one desire to disappear.